Etiquette in Italy is mostly invisible until you break it. Greetings, gestures, dining manners and the social cues locals expect are worth learning before you arrive.
In Italy, etiquette comes down to a few things: greetings are physical, bella figura, and gestures speak volumes.
Two kisses on the cheek (left first, then right) between friends and acquaintances. Handshake for first meetings. Hugs for close friends. Italians touch — it's warmth, not intrusion.
Tip: Eye contact during a toast is essential. 'Cin cin' and look them in the eye, or it's bad luck (or bad manners, depending who you ask).
Looking good isn't vanity — it's respect. Italians dress thoughtfully even for errands. You don't need designer clothes, but wrinkled gym shorts at a restaurant will get looks.
Hand gestures are a second language. The pinched-fingers 'what do you want?' gesture is real and everywhere. Watch, learn, but don't overuse them — it reads as mockery.